Tag: immigrant experience

Anne’s Song

Anne’s Song A Free Verse Poem You have always kept your songs close, Quiet as sunrise tucked behind evening curtains, Shy – embarrassed, you say – Afraid the melody might stumble, That your voice might stray from the path, That the world would hear you sing And think the tune misplaced. But I have listened,..

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Christmas for Anne in Slovakia

Christmas for Anne in Slovakia As you know, many Canadians – and people the world over – celebrate Christmas today, on what we call “Christmas Eve.” https://flamingosschool.com/when-do-people-celebrate-christmas-in-various-countries-around-the-world/   For my wife Anne’s family December 25 was a mere afterthought, a day to recover from the previous day’s festivities. December 24 was THE day.   Anne’s..

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A Child’s Christmas Carol Confusion

A Child’s Christmas Carol Confusion Wonder and Bewilderment in Yuletide Lyrics* When I was a small child growing up in Georgetown, Ontario, Christmas carols embodied an enchanting mystery – a flurry of twinkling words and sounds that tumbled through the air as delightfully as snowflakes, yet made about as much sense as trying to build..

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Wrestling with being a caregiver

Wrestling with being a caregiver My two sons are paragons of physical fitness, deservedly, if ordinately, proud of their rippling muscles, attained by countless hours of training and body building. I, on the other hand, have always been a flabby wimp. When I was a boy of about six, back in Georgetown in around 1958,..

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Animal Dreams: Animal Therapy and Terminal Cancer

Animal Dreams: Animal Therapy and Terminal Cancer   When I was a small child, I had the gooiest of soft spots for all animal creatures, fictional or otherwise. Every night before bed, my dad would read me a story featuring the little forest and meadow people of Thornton W. Burgess, including Grandfather Frog, Jimmy Skunk,..

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Blackbird: A song of flight from illness and sorrow

Blackbird: A song of flight from illness and sorrow   “Blackbird,” written by Paul McCartney and credited to Lennon–McCartney, is one of the enduring gems of The Beatles’ 1968 “White Album.”   The year my wife Anne, who is succumbing to brain cancer, arrived in Canada. McCartney’s “Blackbird” is an acoustic piece, featuring only his..

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A Letter to Anne Tyler: A note of sorrow and gratitude

A Letter to Anne Tyler A note of sorrow and gratitude Dear Anne Tyler, I hope you’ll forgive the forwardness of this letter from a stranger, but I felt I needed to write. My name is Robert McBryde, and I want to tell you about the Anne in my life—my wife, Anne—who has become one..

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Tongue tied: Brain cancer as a stealthy thief

Tongue tied: Brain cancer as a stealthy thief   A striking characteristic of  growing up in southern Ontario, more specifically in Georgetown and London, in the 1950s and 1960s,  was exposure to how my father handled the English language, especially idioms and expressions. Clearly Dad mimicked the movie actors and radio talk of his day,..

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Glioblastoma and Bohemian Waxwings: Birds for Anne

Glioblastoma and Bohemian Waxwings: Birds for Anne Le texte français suit le texte anglais. Bohemian Waxwings, last winter in Domaine de Maizerets, Quebec City. Photo credit Leigh Bateman My wife Anne, who has terminal brain cancer, known as glioblastoma, is a bird and nature lover who is soothed in her suffering by such images. These..

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May 5, 2025 marked 80 years since Canadian troops liberated Holland from the Nazis

May 5, 2025 marked 80 years since Canadian troops liberated Holland from the Nazis Written by my friend Maria van der Velden Yesterday marked 80 years since Canadian troops liberated Holland from the Nazis. My mother’s family lived in Bakel, Brabant at the time, running a combination cafe/pub/bakery and it’s depicted in the first photo…

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